Stop Hacking and Start Healing: Keys to Stress, Trauma, and Harnessing Women’s Gifts in Business and Leadership with Brain Expert Dr. Heidi Hanna
Brain expert Dr. Heidi Hanna gave the best definition of stress I've heard, "Stress is what happens when demand exceeds capacity."
It beautifully frames our conversation about Patriarchy Stress Disorder (PSD). Demands on "liberated" women keep growing, while our capacity is compromised by the millennia of ancestral trauma of oppression. Our capacity is constantly overwhelmed, resulting in high stress levels that women are running.
Heidi further explains, because 95% of our unconscious brain activity is dedicated to tracking threats, as long as women don't feel safe, our capacity remains compromised, making it very challenging, if not impossible, to truly play big and let our talents shine full out.
That's how PSD holds us back and compromises the power of expression of our work in the world. It also keeps driving up our stress levels.
Another great quote from Heidi, on why we subconsciously hold onto stress, how it becomes a comfort zone and an addiction: "When people are experiencing uncomfortable emotions... Stress is a great distraction... a numbing agent."
While disturbing statistics are telling us that 90% if not more of all doctors' visits are stress-related.
Healing PSD and other kinds of trauma would reduce the constant hyper-vigilance of our nervous systems, the levels of stress we're running, and free up capacity to play full out in our zone of genius.
Heidi and I geeked out on a lot of hot topics through the lens of neuroscience and trauma:
Sensory sensitivity and highly sensitive people: why they're awesome, and how to honor the vulnerabilities that come with these superpowers
Stress lens: what it is and why it matters
How stress, trauma, and sensitivity interplay with anxiety, depression, and panic attacks
When you know better but you can't do better
Setting boundaries and better utilizing energy
Having just the right amount of stress to stimulate growth and recovery time to replenish battery
The gifts of sensitivity for creativity, intuition, spirituality
Women and stress
How stress is coded through nature and nurture
How relationships can be key to healing
Male and female brain patterns
How female leadership improves the bottom line
Why successful women don't know they are stressed
How your available resources increase when someone is sharing the burden with you
Signs and symptoms of stress
Why it's not helpful to be comparing our stress to others, as we always find someone who has it worse and overlook our own needs
...Bottom line and one more killer quote from our amazing guest, "We need to stop hacking and we need to start healing."
How's that for a call to action?
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MORE ABOUT HEIDI:
Heidi Hanna, PhD is Chief Energy Officer of Synergy – a company providing brain-based health and performance solutions to individuals and organizations and the Executive Director of the American Institute of Stress. She is also a Founding Partner with the Academy for Brain Health and Performance. She has been featured at Fortune Magazine’s Most Powerful Women in Business Summit, ESPN Women’s Leadership Summit, and the Million Dollar Round Table, and is the author of six books including the NY Times bestseller The SHARP Solution, Stressaholic and Recharge. Heidi is a Certified Humor Professional with the Association for Applied and Therapeutic Humor, although she won’t admit she’s funny.
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MORE ABOUT YOUR HOST:
Dr. Valerie Rein is a psychologist, women’s mental health expert, and business consultant who helps people achieve the best ROI by achieving the best mental health—without therapy. Dr. Valerie specializes in uncovering the hidden traumas that hold hostage people’s best work, relationships, and well-being, and effectively heals them with a powerful mind-body methodology. She holds an EdM in Psychological Counseling from Columbia University and a PhD from the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology. Dr. Valerie is an author of Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women's Happiness and Fulfillment and a sought-after speaker at conferences and companies committed to diversity, equity, and inclusion, leadership development, and unlocking people’s potential.
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